Monday, August 08, 2005 ;
8/08/2005 11:25:00 PM
Hmmm.. sitting on the bus, on my way for IF class.. peering out at the moving scenery.. listening to the soothing voice of Corienne May when suddenly this stewpit analogy on r/s just pop into my head.. Actually it is 2 analogies but each sort of build on each other..
The 1st one was how people are when they face r/s. People are very much like bubbles or particles that are littered with doors and keys around them... Something like thorns like that.. and they will be floating around and bumping into other particles along the way.. and now and then, coincidentally one of this keys might be inserted into a door and if the keys fits.. the door is open to this particle. In the people context, a r/s is thus formed.. but then not all particles are the same, some with just doors, some with just keys, some with doors always closed and obviously there are ones with doors always open.. thus there are no one people who are entirely similar and thus there are people who are able to "one leg step on two boats" since there are more than one door....
At this point of time, you might feel what I am saying has no logic whatsoever... but then I am not one with no logic as my left brain started churning and a logical thought hit me as the image pictured by the analogy is too fantasy.... thus it evolved to a new analogy where people are actually very much like atoms or molecules. Some found in gases, some found in liquids and some found in solids. And if you do remember your science and chemistry, there are just some elements that do not interact with one another, they are the inert gases who will forever been alone. besides that, the other elements are quite reactive thus synergy could be formed. This, in human context, is when a r/s is formed... To add on to my analogy, it will also explains why some people are able to change gf/bf at an alarming rate, while some just stick to the one they met right from the beginning... In order to explain clearly, let me bring you back to your secondary school days, where the chemistry teacher was telling you that atoms or molecules in their solid state will vibrate or move in their position thus maintaining an object's shape and form, while atoms in a liquid will move around much faster, bumping here and there and of course, particles in a gas will move even faster and bump against other particles as the space given to it, gets smaller.. Therefore, someone who oftens changes partner can be seen like a particle in a gas where the time with another particle is so short and yet there is interaction going between both "interactin" particles...
Anyway, the rest will be up to your imagination as before I could carry on thinking.. I've reached my stop.. so till the next day dreaming session..
BYez...
J'amore mon cherie
